Hear Hear! Mothers/husbands/friends mean well, but sometimes their "enthusiasm" comes off as judgement or just plain rude. However, bless her for supporting you, in her own way. I know of people who battle the person in their life who says "you'll never make it", so at least your mother is trying to be supportive. You are doing absolutely fabulous! It's inspiring to see you in it for the long haul!