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All I have to do is survive the next 5 days.... but at this point that seems like an impossible feat.
Diet has been horrible since last week. Last night I had a Whopper and fries for dinner. Granted, we were out doing laundry but jeesh. Doughnuts for breakfast because my boss is finally back from leave, no protein shake yet today... ugh. Skipped the gym today since I was up too late folding and putting away laundry. I have things that have to be taken care of before we can leave for the weekend to go to the fiance's sister's wedding.... which is the main reason I feel like the next 5 days are going to be hell.
We found out on Easter that the rehersal for the wedding is this coming Friday at 4. Well, call me ingorant, but the rehersal never even crossed my mind... for more than one reason. 1. I am not in the wedding. 2. I have NEVER been in a wedding. 3. No one ever mentioned anything to me or my fiance about it. Well guess what???? I work till 4 on Friday and then have a 3 hour drive to Santa Cruz..... So everyone has been freaking out about that since my fiance is the best man. C'mon now people, is a little communication too much to ask?
Anyways, so I decided that I was just going to call in sick. Problem solved. Well last night Ryan (my fiance has a name lol even tho I don't refer to him as that here), called his sister to let her know I would be calling in and we would be leaving early Friday morning to head down. Then she started rambling on about Ryan staying with the guys in the groom's condo Friday night, and I can stay with my future MIL in her hotel since they have an extra room. Well there are several things wrong with this idea. A. Ryan has been telling them all along that he has no intention of staying in the grooms condo the night before. B. I need my space and do not feel comfortable staying with my MIL to be and her sisters in their room, especially with my 5 year old - not to mention having to move all of my stuff to our hotel for the next night because we are not driving and we are not staying at the same hotel. C. I am not going to take a hit at work and risk getting in trouble at work for me and the Bug to be in a hotel room by ourselves all night. If he wants to stay with them, or is guilt tripped into it for that matter, I will either drive down Friday night after work or I will head down Saturday morning. Of course, BRIDEZILLA is having none of this. And with this next statement there is mucho back story, but dammit I have had too much of my life the last 18 months revolve around his sister. I was not raised in a family where everything always revolved around one person and I am not going to start allowing it now. I swear this has been nothing but drama since the day she got engaged and I cannot wait for Saturday to be done and over. And people wonder why I would prefer to elope versus dealing with this BS.
Now that I am done venting, I am going back to my work :) Hope everyone has a good day.
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ugh.. so sorry for all ur stress!.. nothing worse than a bride that really thinks the world stops for her wedding... i was probably the coolest bride ever..lol.. didn't expect much from anyone except my groom (soon to be ex husband.) lol.. well momma i hope u have a better week!... and don't worry about ur diet u know what ur doing and its never too late to start fresh.
10 apr 12 door lid: Naiomy
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Omg I had to walk away from your journal when I read it earlier at work because it was making ME mad, and I'm not even in the situation!!! Frustrating........ Hope venting about it to us can help a little bit.. focus some of that frustration into some great exercise!!!
10 apr 12 door lid: erika2633
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Hope the vent made you feel a little better. Family situations are hard. I'd be like you, if he wants to stay in the groom's condo (which my hubby would definitely be guilted in to), let him, but I'd work and drive down later since you're not in the wedding. And, I definitely wouldn't want to stay in a room with the MIL and sisters when you have a child that you will have to take care of. No thanks! Sounds like some drama there, but you just have to get through this weekend and at least the wedding drama will be over. Good luck!!
11 apr 12 door lid: mars2kids
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Thanks guys! Problem has been solved. I am still calling in (which I ok'd with my boss before hand, she is back from leave as of yesterday) but we are getting a condo in the same place everyone else is staying. It is more expensive, but definitely more convenient for so many reasons. That way, he can go hang out with the guys and still come be with me afterwards instead of being 10 miles away. Thanks for always letting me bitch :)
11 apr 12 door lid: Baileyrose85
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