I am 41( almost 42). I am not happy with myself. I am married but you know how that goes( not happy with yourself not happy with anything). Nothing could stand in my way. I was invincible not now( not that i am old) but i seem to feel like i am not longer strong. I have three dogs, no children. I am in school for the last time. For me this is it. I can't lose this battle any more. I have a herna in my belly and it needs to be fixed and they won't until I have lost at least 60 pounds. My goal will still leave with alot of weight to lose but i need to get to the doctors first. I am not perfect but I am me..