Hello Jojo, I want to say so much, but I will just send you love and compassion. And remember there are so many here who care!
09 feb 17 door lid: gokona
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So sorry for the loss of your mom. We're here to support you as you walk this out.
09 feb 17 door lid: Becca P
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Welcome back. So sorry to hear of your loss and the family animosity doesn't help... Please know that there are people here who will support you in your journey.
09 feb 17 door lid: RiverRes
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Joanna, So many of us share similar circumstances. I am single and was my mom's caregiver for 2 years. She had a sizeable brain tumour and left this world last year. What little family I have left, have abandoned me over money issues. Love yourself and be brave. You can accomplish everything you want to! <3
09 feb 17 door lid: suzannasuzanna
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You've had rough go of it....bless you! You've got a home here with lots of caring folks...prayers going up that God blesses you in a special way.
09 feb 17 door lid: 2227Gwen
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That is so harsh...my sincerest condolences. Allow yourself to grieve while you get back on track.
09 feb 17 door lid: Horseshu1
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Very sorry for your loss. Hoping your family gets over their issues and can open their hearts and minds.
09 feb 17 door lid: AZSouthsideGirl
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Thank you for the support !
09 feb 17 door lid: jojo1956
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Thank all of you for support ! It means a lot right now !
09 feb 17 door lid: jojo1956
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Prayers to you! I took care of my grandmother, mother, and father while raising my kids. I was left the house that I paid for when they could not. My siblings wont talk to me since I have the house. At first it hurt but then I realized - I did the most selfless thing I could do and I gave up 8 years of my life making sure each of them passed peacefully and with diginity - with a roof over their head and yummies in their tummy. Life goes on....
09 feb 17 door lid: PGM012197
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Sorry for your loss,in a death the worst comes out in people take care of yourself and i hope things work out better for you.
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It happens more often than we care to talk about. You did the right thing taking care of parents is tough. They are not ready to see all the good you did maybe never will... Be strong we are here for you..........
09 feb 17 door lid: Char60
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My warmest condolences to you. I lost my mother awhile back to cervical cancer and remember my family going absolutely nuts. Death is hard to take and the mother is usually the one who holds us all together. I think time softens all of us left behind.
09 feb 17 door lid: MCslimmer
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Yes, it is a heartbreaker.... I and my almost 90 yr. old parents have gone thru similar circumstances from my siblings. Fortunately, two of them have finally risen above the issue. But the other has written our folks off -- Greed and pride are at the root of it.
09 feb 17 door lid: Stringofpearls
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SO sorry JO JO. You will get back on track again. Do it for you.. You come FIRST!!
09 feb 17 door lid: Mmurray59
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Inheritance often pulls a family apart. It happened to me too; so sad. Your mom did what she wanted and thought was right, so they'll eventually have to live with that ..... or not. Yo've got to move on. Take care, and welcome here.
09 feb 17 door lid: erikahollister
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So sorry for your loss. It is tough being a caretaker for a parent. Underrated and under appreciated. It will either bring a family together or tear it apart and I'm sorry it went the way it did for you. It's time to take care of yourself and deal with your grief in a healthy way. I wish you luck! This is a very supportive place - use it!
10 feb 17 door lid: Horseshu1
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Sorry for your loss. Losing a Mom is tough, You can lose those pounds and find a job also. Your family will probably come around, but if they don't good friends are like family. Just try to keep lines of communication open, but don't allow family to bring you down. You have got this!
10 feb 17 door lid: Peggy 2
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I can so relate to you...I stayed with my sister for over a year as she fought her battle with stage 4 small cell lung cancer. I had put on 50...yes 50 lbs by the time she lost her battle and I have since lost my mom...we are the last person we take care of in those situations. Take care of yourself first Jojo let the rest go and move on...its your turn.
10 feb 17 door lid: BCLenny
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Welcome back. So sorry for your loss. I lost my dad to cancer 10/21/15.
10 feb 17 door lid: Kimberly Dawn 65
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